First order of business, happy early birthday.
My advice is based on you saying you don't have the time or space to work on your Mustang, and my own experiences.
Rusty Gillis does outstanding work on Mustangs, and is located in Port Richie FL. http://www.gillisrestorations.com/
Summit sells a Holley knockoff that people rave about, I've not used it but would if I need another carb.
Forum member @Midlife is the go to guy for wiring harness issues. http://midlifeharness.com/
Nothing wrong with Ford steering if it's in good shape. Dan at Chockostang.com is the go to guy for steering issues. I believe the doing the Shelby/Arning upper control arm one inch drop, and proper alignment to be pretty much mandatory for a good handling Mustang. Day Scovil at Daze Cars is a great guy, with many how to tech articles. https://dazecars.com/dazed/drop.html
When you change from factory parts to aftermarket, it's not plug and play. One change will require several other mods for the first to work. I'm president of that club, and discourage new members.
A points based ignition like our cars came with need replaced every 10-15,000 miles. Many people change to Duraspark or Petronix and are happy with it.
I think your buddy's valuation is pretty close.
Good luck with your build.